Boy going to college
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I've been talking to this boy for about three months. When we first started talking his friend told me he doesnt want anything more than sex with me because hes getting ready to go back to college,later he told me it was a lie. So about three weeks ago we had sex for the first time.After we did he started calling alot more and we seemed to be getting alot closer. After the third time (a little less than a week ago) he stopped calling me as much and when he does hes with his friends or its very short. He told me last night wed talk longer tonight and when he called he talked to his friend the whole time... except to ask me if my friend would go out with his friend sometime! My mom thinks hes just scared to get into a relationship with him going back to college... she doesnt know about the sex though. Am i just getting used? Oh and I really want something more with him but he keeps saying he wants to see how it goes when hes at college first. Do you think thats an excuse? The other day he called me baby when we were talking and i didnt mind then but that was the first time when we were just talking but he always does when we're having sex. I dont want him to say it unless he really means it how can i tell him that without being mean?
College is almost here! Give him room to decide how he really feels about you... and how you feel about him. College might be such a distraction that he will forget about you, but it may also do the reverse and make him long for someone familiar (you).
Based on the description of the phone calls, and the things he said, it is possible that you are being used. Time will tell.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com