From Friends to LoversVisitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
There is this guy who I am friends with. We hang out at a mutual place on the weekends. I get the feeling he is attracted to me, the way he looks at me, the way he acts, and talks. But I don't want to pursue it, since I am not sure of his feelings. How can I find out for sure how he feels about me, without ruining our friendship or make a fool out of myself by being too straight forward with him?
There are tons of hints on the site about this because it is VERY VERY common. I'm sure that every human on the planet goes through this at least once in their lifetime.
There are lots of ways to slowly approach the subject! Start to sit next to him. Give him long, slow back massages. Ask him to give you long, slow back massages. Talk to him for hours about your hopes and dreams. Ask him about his. Great relationships are built on great friendships. Become truly great friends, sharing your intimate secrets. Intimacy can naturally follow from that.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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