Breaking the Ice
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
okey..i know what you mean by....you have a very sexy body and i like to have .......with you.....i know that THAT'S THE COMPLETE JONEY BRAVO THING.....and if you know....he always got whooped!!.....now....when i approach girls.....when i mean approach....i mean...by...just walking near them and then heading another direction...and the enviroment is...well...lets say crouwded....there are people everywere. Now i know what to say to a girl when the conforsation has started....but....í dont know HOW to begin...what shall i say.....hello....how are you today??...and if the girl suddenly thinks: i dont even know this guy and he comes asking me how i'm fealing??...
i'm a bit embarised.....and everything is hard for me...and what if she is in a group of girls??...what then??...i really really dont know these things.....
what will a girl think....when she catches you staring at het a few times??....does she like it or will she get innoied??
and sorry to bug you with my questions...but i'm just a rookie at these things.....:(
That first bit of contact between people is flirting - it's the way you cross the line between being a "stranger" and a "person that is OK to talk to". I have a whole section on flirting -
It has to do with catching the girl's attention and having her think, "Neat, that guy is interested in me!" instead of thinking, "Yikes, where did this bizarre guy just come from!" So practice flirting with female friends that you know, it's an AMAZINGLY important skill to learn. If you ever see guys from Spain or France or Italy, they flirt with EVERY girl they come across, young or old, thin or not-thin. It's all about practice, and having it a part of your standard way of interacting with people. The more people you flirt with, the easier it gets. And the easier it gets, the more likely it's going to work when you run across someone you ARE interested in. So flirt with the rest, and get some practice!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com