I want my ex back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i want my ex back so bad its driving me crazy she wanted to break up cause she said this isnt what she wants right now. i was her first evrything and she just wants to experince life. she is 20 we lived together for 3 years and i have all ways been there for her no matter what. we argue alot before we broke just about one or the other going out. and the it lead to a break up. now she said its cause i never wanted to hang out with her and her friends or i wouldnt ask her to hang out with me. im 24 and go to places you have to be 21 to get in any way she is now seeing this guy that is 28 and i feel like im gonna loose her forever if i dont call her and talk. i have told her that i will start hanging around her more and inviting her to go with me. but she said that she has got over the worst part and that was leaving me and she doesnt want to come back until she is sure i am what she wants. i think she really does but she wants to have fun and be single we dated 4 yrs. i know i shouldnt force her to like me but i am scared of letting her go i can have just about any girl i want except for her i am scared that i will start dating someone else and she comes back a few months later i will give in and she will thinks it is ok for her to do that anytime she wants. we also talk once and a while and she will tell me she loves if i say it first. and i seen her out last night and she kept staring to see who i was talking to. and i asked her today why she was and she said just cause. then i asked if she wanted to met up and talk about things she said no cause she cant do that it was hard to even look at you last night. we are both the stubborn type but i have started to give and now she knows that. and she got mad when she found out i went out on a date with this girl even though she has been talking to that guy for like a month and we have been broken up for month and half. i dont like being alone but i dont want to move on. when i call she gets mad if i talk about getting back and i think the only reason is cause of that guy. what to do please help. is there some type of over the counter medication for anxiety or depression or a help line to call im tired of bothering my close girl friends this is way to hard. i would never expect me to act this way that is why i know she is that special one for me sorry so long but it hurts and i need some advice
First, you have to get a prescription for depression and anxiety remedies.
Regarding the fix you are in, all you can do is to continue trying to do what you have been. I can't offer any addition to what you have done. Maybe flowers and candy could do the trick along with a specific inventation to go somewhere she would like.
-- from George
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