I Want to Pressure my Ex
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
my ex has finaly told me that she loves me after she broke up with me and broke my heart and 2 months of waiting she is back and told me that she is so sorry for what she did and i asked her if she wants me back and she said you know i do well
after she told me she loved me i asked her if she wanted to get back together with me she said yes but that she is scared of hurting me again and i told her not to be afriad well she doesnt want to get back together right now because she is scared and i understand that but i really want her back i love and miss her so much she said that she still wants to be friends for now until she know what to do and isnt scared but i mean if she wasnt ready why did she even tell me all that stuff like i love you and i miss you and i want to get back with you
im confused should i rush her into the descision or wait longer
Never, ever, ever pressure someone into doing something. A relationship is supposed to be about two people who VOLUNTARILY choose to be together. If you push her into doing something, she will always blame you later on for making her rush when she wasn't ready. You need to build up the friendship and foundation for your relationship. If it really matters to you, then you will want to do it right.
-- from Lisa
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