How Do I Kiss?Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i'm incredibly nervous, shy and hesitant to kiss my boyfriend, i really want to, but i don't know how. what do you do with your tongue, lips, saliva, and hands? i'm clueless when it comes to using my tongue, what am i supposed to do with it?
Kissing and touching and all of that can seem scary when you haven't done it before. The trick is to go slowly. Start with the basics, holding hands. Hugging. Sitting with your arms around each other. Giving gentle lips-only kisses goodbye. Get COMFORTABLE with those things. The whole key of intimacy is to please and be comfortable with each other. If you're incredibly nervous at a given stage, you're missing the point :)
So let's say that you're comfortable with the kiss on the lips (the quick kiss goodnight) and with hugging each other. So now you are happy being next to him and with your lips touching. So now it's just a matter of then pushing the lips a bit closer together, and tickling his lip with your tongue. Start with his mouth closed. You're just tickling him! Then let him do it to you. That can be quite fun :)
Then when you're fine with that, go with your mouth slightly open, and tickle his tounge with yours, Have him do the same. That's fun too :)
So do things in stages. Each stage is great fun, and you'll appreciate it WAY more if you're not scared out of your mind because you leaped through 8 middle steps.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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