I Won't Ask Him Out
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I like this guy that I work with alot. We talk all the time and always hang out together in groups. The other day I was talking to one of his good friends who basically came out and told me that he likes me but is really shy and won't ask me out himself, so he told me to do it instead.
I was all ready to do this, but then after the mutual friend told him how I felt, the friend told me to lay low because the guy I like is "unsure of himself" I don't know what this means and am now totally confused. Since that day, he still continues to flirt with me and does not act any different. What does it mean that he is unsure of himself and what can I do about the situation?
If you like someone, then spend time with him! There's no reason to make a giant deal about asking him out. Just do things with him and GO out with him. I have a whole how-to on doing this here -
the more low key you can make the transition, the less stress for everyone.
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com