She Doesn't Want to Lose the Friendship

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
There is this one girl that just broke up with her bf. We talked before and she said if I didnt go out with him, you would be the one I'd be with. But then after she broke up I asked her about it and she said we became way too close for anything to happen between us and it would be weird for us to go out after being such close friends. She also said that attration she had towards be has went away.

I really want to have this girl, is there any way I can change my image to her? Advice
It sounds like she's afraid of losing the friendship she has, which is a really great sign! It means your friendship is really important to her. She may not realize that all great relationships begin with great friendships - that it is a risk that brings great joy.

I have a whole how-to on handling this here -

read through it and then start in on making it come true!

-- from Lisa
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