she doesn't believe in french kissing

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I have been dating my girlfriend now for ten months, and we are very, very close, but she doesn't believe in french kissing, how can I gradually ease her into so i don't rush her into it? Advice
Do you know why she doesn't like it? Is it from a moral standing that it's only for married people? Is it that she thinks it's icky? Is it that she thinks only skanks do that sort of thing? Find out the reason and then you'll be able to counter it with rational reasons why she should try it.

Now, when she is willing to try it, make sure that your technique is up to par. Be gentle. Only touch her mouth with the tip of your tongue. When she opens her mouth, don't dive in like you're going fishing for her tonsils. Tickle her tongue with yours. Lick the roof of her mouth right behind her teeth. Tease her into putting her tongue in your mouth. But don't be a slobbery mess or she'll never try it again.

Good luck!


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