we both wanna take it a step forword but he has told me that he thinks hes got a small..well you know

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
ok...I have a cupple questions...:) 1) How do I close a kiss??? we have been datin a wile and we french and stuff but he always ends up closein and i never get to..i tryed but he wouldent...and 2) He wount open up to me..we both wanna take it a step forword but he has told me that he thinks hes got a small..well you know and is imberised..and well lets just say his lil friend has not come to see him yet...(dont worrie he's 15 and so am I..lol) but can he still get an injoyment off of it?

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It seems like your actually asking one question and that is, "how can we move our physical relationship to the next level."

Given the age range of which you placed ourself, in good conscience I would have to say that before anything moves along that you make sure you are ready emotionally. Sex is a big deal at your age and I don't want to sound like a parent or a teacher, but you must be prepared for everything from the new feelings of closeness to the possiblility of getting pregnant.

The other thing is that maybe he isn't ready... emotionally or physically. Maybe he's scared. In being in a reltationship you must repect eachothers feelings. Did you consider that he may want to wait until he's either older or married? Talk to him. Don't try to guess.

That being said, if you just reassure him that it's all ok and that you care for him, things will progress.

Best wishes,

-- from Marc
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