he is avoiding me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi, my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now and we have been through alot to be so young i mean, and now it's like he is avoiding me and i don't know what to do i try to call him but he won't answer he won't call me or anything i think he may be breakink up with me but im not sure and i don't want to break up with him because i love him way to much. He is a big part of my life now and i think you could call us inseparable except for right now i don't know what's going on and i need some advice on what to do before i die.
I'm sorry to say that unless there are pressing things in his life, like a major illness or possible military service, etc. that he probably wants to break up with you. Some guys can come straight out and say it, some guys become jerks, and some guys just dissappear.
Probably the last thing you can do is call, write, or email him and tell him that you've tried to talk to him, but if you don't hear back from him within a week, you are going to assume he wants the relationship over and you will grant his wishes and move on. You will have your answer by that date.
Whatever you do, after you set the date, don't try to contact him and if you do break-up, don't find a rebound, that will hurt, too.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com