I've been stuck with this problem for two weeks.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
There is this boy at summer school. I think he is really cute. I think he likes me to. The thing is I have a problem. See my friend which I've known since i was is still a close friend. I'm starting to get a lot of feelings for him and the boy at summer school. I'm afraid that if i date him his friends also my friends will get mad at me. And if i break up with him they will get madder. And the thing with the other boy is he goes to a different school and even if we do like each other he might find someone at his school. and cheat on me so i don't know if i should try to get him and work it out or go for my guy and let my friends get mad at me. I've been stuck with this problem for two weeks. What do you all think i should do go for my guy or the boy from summer school or just forget about them both? Please help. What do you think?
Why would your friends get mad at you going out with your guy friend? I would think they'd be happy that you both are very happy with one another. So don't worry about what they think -- go after your happiness and they will learn to deal with it.
I would recommend against starting up with the summer school guy because it will be a short-term relationship that you'll try to make long-term and it will just fall on its face. You should be spending your time with someone closer to home.
Whatever you do, find what makes you happy and then do it. Don't worry about other people's opinions.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com