maybe i'm too young
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i met him in Grade 7 which is what i am now.. maybe i'm too young.. i started of as frens.. and then he became my godbrother.. i used to go to his house and chill. at the lobby of his condominium, i made a wish that he'll hug me.. but he didn't.. the next few days i chill out with him, he did.. i was so damn happy and i thought we are such loving "siblings" as day passes by.. i started to feel jealous about him and his "wife"[not a realy wife..].. we talked on the phone evryday for hours.. now, i feel really left out by him.. so i am sorta avoiding him because i tend to be shy when i luv someone.. so what is he to me? best buddy? brother? boyfriend? i am really desparate for him.. i really love him.. i wanted to confess.. i did it once on a crappy way like, "hey dude!! i've like you ya know!!" and he smiled at me.. now i am totally a riped tomato.. tell me better tips of how to confess to him.. the tips there don't really work.. help me..
It sounds to me like he's much older and has a relationship going on. That means he's off limits, no matter how you feel about him. This guy is just playing with you because it's fun for him. But it'll just rip you apart. I don't believe that he will leave his current relationship in order to be with you.
You should enjoy those feelings you have for him, but find someone your own age who likes you back. You need someone your own age who will know you and appreciate you for who you are. And someone who can give you what you want and need.
-- from Jenn
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