I am 26 and he is 42.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
There is this guy that I work with. I don't think the age matters, but I want to let you know anyway. I am 26 and he is 42. I have always been attracted to older men. I think they are more mature. I think he is giving me mixed signals, but I can't really tell. What are some signs that he is interested?
We have a whole area on how to find out if he likes you:
Now, though you didn't ask, I don't think it's a good idea to date someone so much older. He's never going to be at the same place you are, and while you're going through your 30 yr old trials and tribulations, he'll be in the middle of a mid-life crisis. He won't be able to empathize with your problems, nor you with him. He'll be looking at retiring just as you are getting your career going. I had a marriage to a guy 11 yrs older than I am, and the age gap is what broke us up. I know of many others who are in the same boat too. It's just not a good idea.
But, you can always find out on your own!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com