it just seems like he can't get over her and move on with me.

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I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. Before we started dating, he broke up with his ex of 5 years. He admitted to me that he still loves her, but the problem is that i have fallen in love with him. I told him how i felt and he says that he knows but he needs to get over his ex. He gets really moody and sometimes i feel as if he is pushing me away. i really love this guy but i don't know what to do sometimes. Sometimes i get really upset at him because it just seems like he can't get over her and move on with me. He keeps on saying that he wants to move on but it seems like he doesn't. Please help!
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It sounds like he is confused, too. Give him space. He'll either get over her or not. If he does, great. If not, move on. There is no need to put yourself through this when he is clearly telling you he needs time alone.

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