i just want him back so bad that its tearing me up inside.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My bf broke up with me 2day after 9 months and ive been in tears all day. If i could make one wish it would be that he never finished me and we was still in a happy relationship, i just want him back so bad that its tearing me up inside. i cant live with out him and it would destroy me if i saw him with someone else. i feel that i really cant cope without him and i just want him back. how can i do that?? he said i feel like a sister to him. how can i change that?? please help me......im 14 n he is 15
Breaking up with someone is the hardest thing that you will ever go through. And you're only 14, you have a lot of breakups to go through before you settle down.
Unfortunately, there is no cure for the hurt you're feeling. You need to mourn the loss of the relationship just as if a pet had died. It's the same feeling of pain and despondency and miserableness. And it's only healed over time. Take it easy on yourself and keep reminding yourself that you are a strong young woman who has a lot going for you, and that you will find true love, and that though he seems like he was perfect for you, that he wasn't and your true soulmate is out there waiting for you to find him.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com