I am happy with this person but I know my heart still wants to find out if there is still a stong connection with my ex.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
In high I had a high school sweetheart. It was the typical star football cheerleader relationship. We we engaged to be married but his father was moving with his job. We were having some issues and arguing came into the picture. I began to see someone on the side and my boyfried left and moved. We have a bad breakup but I was hurt and I hurt him. I know now that that was a mistake and I know I still love him. I had lost touch with him and we both remarried and now have two children with a present mates. I myself am happy with this person but I know my heart still wants to find out if there is still a stong connection with my ex. We have found each other and been talking for quite sometime now and he is willing to see me. Is this a big mistake? I know our lives are different now but I want to know?
It depends. Would you be willing to risk your marriage (that means your happiness, your children's happiness and your husband's happiness) just to find out?
I'm not even going to get into what it can do to his family, regardless of whether or not he has feelings for you.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com