Now she is talking to my friend, the one i was suspicious about

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MY ex and i have been together for years now. We had our ups and we had our downs. To make the long story short, I started to become suspicious and yes, eventually i became controlling. I felt like she liked one of my friends and we got into a lot of arguments and broke up over it. Now she is talking to my friend, the one i was suspicious about. for some reason, i'm not mad at him. i just want to be back with her. i regret all my faults and really want to work things out. she's telling me she is confused. what do i do? Advice
Sounds like you were feeling a bit of jealousy. That comes from a lack of self-esteem and a lack of trust. You should check out our site which goes into it more.

As for getting her back, you've got to show her that you've changed and that you are no longer the controlling dominating person that she knew you to be. Only then will you have a shot at a decent relationship with her.

I wish you luck!

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