my boyfriend is all of a sudden starting to like other girls
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
i am a very jealous person but i have been getting beter at that lately well not as bad. well anyways my boyfriend is all of a sudden starting to like other girls and starting to make me feel like we are not going out anymore. the love is still there but it just dosent fell like we are together. another thing he dont really open up to me when spmething else is wrong with him and he gets moody alot. what should i do? help me please i dont want to loose him.
All relationships go through ups and downs, and some times they waver in and out like this, where it seems like things aren't as romantic as they used to be. Sounds to me like you should be sitting down to talk with him about what is really going on here. it's important to talk with him and not badger or accuse him of looking at other girls, but get across to him that you miss what you used to have and you're hopeful that you can get it back again. Emphasize that you want to be there for him and want him to treat you as a best friend - one he can confide in. With any luck, this will get to him and he'll be able to open up to you more.
I wish you the best!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com