i asked her out on the phone and she said she would have to think bout it
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hey im 15 year old male going on 16 in a month, well my problem is that i met this girl like 2 weeks ago right and i think we hit it off i asked her for her phone number and she gave it to me and weve been talking on the phone alot and stuff and then one day her friend told me that she liked me and i told her that i didnt believe that till she tells me herself and i already had told her that i liked her well anyway she told me she did like me so i asked her out on the phone and she said she would have to think bout it what does this mean
It means that she's enjoying the phone conversations, but she's unsure about seeing you in person because she doesn't know what to expect from you. Next time, say, "hey, there's a good movie showing, would you like to go with me?" Set specifics of where you would meet and when the date would end. This way she can give you a clear yes or no. If you suggest somewhere public and open, then she'll be more likely to go with it. She may be afraid that you'll want to smooch her up the first night.
In any case, keep calling her and keep getting closer to her on the phone, and she will eventually agree and you'll be all set.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com