jus recently she has been acting rather strange
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I have this problem with this girl im seein she first started talkin to me an liking me and then i became attracted to her we seemed to hit it off just perfect but then jus recently she has been acting rather strange she calls me jus about every day and makes plans for the evening but then when the evening roles around she is nowhere to be found she doesnt call me and when i call her, her mom claims shes not thier shes been doin this id say the last 3 days and is doing it tnight!!! she just got a cell phone and still no answer she has alot of guy friends and still talks to ex's so it just makes me wonder. Should i commit and trust this girl or should i leave it before it breaks my heart.
Well, are you officially going out with her, or are you just dating her or just good friends plus benefits? Different relationships require different behavior. If you're really official, then what she's doing is unfair to you. If you're just seeing her, then she's not obligated to keep you informed of her plans, but it is the right thing to do. The bad thing is that she makes plans with you and then ditches you. That's never acceptable. I'm sorry she's doing this to you. I'd confront her if I were you and tell her that if she's going to ditch you then at least be up front about it. If she's worth anything at all, then she'll be abashed by it and will then treat you better. If not, then you might want to start looking for someone who will give you the respect that you deserve.
-- from Jenn
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