i dont know whether to just continue with the friendship
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My friend introduced me to this guy, after that we never talked until about 4 months ago, that first week we talked all night,and he asked me for wake up calls. About a week later we went to a comedy place with friends, and he told me that he just wanted to be friends, and when we talk about relationships he said he doesnt want one for another 2 years. We are very good friends, i go to car shows with him, and we hang out about once a week. We talk almost everyday, I call him when i am having an awful day and he makes me laugh, and vise versa. He always says havea wonderful night and a good sleep each time we talk and he even said I out of all his other friends appricate his humor more. He knows or should know that I really like him, the fact is i dont know how he feels about me. i dont know whether to just continue with the friendship and let things fall into place, or tell him my real feelings?
This is always a difficult question to answer because we never know what the other guy is thinking about it all. So what you can do is minimize your odds of getting rejected. Get closer to him, joke with him about dating and see how he responds. Tell him often how wonderful he is and how much of a good friend he is and isn't it funny how the best relationships are based on a good friendship?
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Best of luck!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com