I think I still love my boyfriend. But I kind of want to be single.

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I think I still love my boyfriend. But I kind of want to be single. Should I break up with him? or what?

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These feelings are completely normal. These two things, though, can't happen at the same time, so you need to figure out which one you want to sacrifice. Spend some time thinking about what each means to you and why you like or don't like each choice. Think about five years in the future, and where you want to be then. And when you think back from that five-years-from-now point, what would you wish you had done? Imagine that it's a friend of yours with this problem. What would you tell her to do?

You already know the answer in your heart, it's just a matter of following through with it. Make that choice and forget about the other one... pining away after a lost path in life is pointless and only hurts you.

Good luck!


-- from Jenn
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