She decided to go out with them instead of keeping the plans she had with me.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Allright, i have a girl friend that i love so very much and i would do anything for. Now we have been going out for over 2 years and we have had our arguments but have over come our problems. Now her best friend from a while ago broke up with her controlling boyfrind and now all of a sudden she is constantly hanging out with her and a few other people. Today she basicly chose them over me because i told her i had wanted to do something like three times a week for about a month. She decided to go out with them instead of keeping the plans she had with me. We havent been hanging out as much as we used to ever since she found this "cool" group of friend's and she knows i am pissed at her and she told me that can handle it how i want. Can you please give me some advice on what to do next....
I understand your frustration that she broke plans with you for her friends. Since you've been going out for over two years, you should have faith with her that things will get back on track. Give her space and time to handle her fling with her friends and welcome her home with open arms each time. Show her that you trust her and that you want her doing things with you, but that you understand how she also wants to be with her friends.
If you are open and honest about your feelings while remaining respectful of her needs, then you should be able to weather this storm as well.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com