night we had a fight because i asked him if he hold hands with any girl.

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i have a long distance relationship, i live in brazil and he lives in usa. Im very jelous, and last night we had a fight because i asked him if he hold hands with any girl. He said he doesnt think so but its normal to hold hands if she is a close friend.We argue because i desagree with that and it made me very upset. Am i right or wrong to be like that? Is that normal to hold hands with a close friend? Advice
Typically people don't hold hands unless they're romantically linked up. In America, holding hands is a sign of intimacy, not something that the average friends do. They can kiss hello, they can hug goodbye, they can give close hugs when something's upsetting, but holding hands is a little across the line for even close friends.

I hope that everything works out for you.

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