ok so i kno this girl really well and we are the best of friends
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
ok so i kno this girl really well and we are the best of friends but i want to be more. i think she knos i like her but she still like this guy from another school. since i kno her really well i kno she wont give up on him that easy. i decided to keep trying for her heart but im afraid it isnt gonna work. wat should i do to make her like me more than a friend or to try to get her to fall in love with me instead or try to make her forget about the guy she like from another school. I really like her and i dont want to mess this up. it thought about telling her but i dont want to be hurt and find out that she still likes him and not me.
Ok, there's no way you can -make- someone fall in love with you. The best you can do is be the best person you can and hope that it matches what they are looking for. Continue to get closer to her as a friend, enjoy what you have with her and try not to feel miserable that you don't have more. Keep in mind that this guy of hers spends a lot less time with her than you do, and he would be jealous of the friendship that you two have.
Since you don't know yet how she's feeling, I suggest you hang back a bit and flirt casually with her. See what she does. Then take it slowly up to where she can't help but fall in love with you.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com