I know he loves me and wants to be with me. And I dont think he would ever cheat on me.Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My newly found love of my life is like Mr. Wonderful. However because of past relationships I have been in I keep finding myself checking the cell phone and not knowing some of the numbers he has recenly called makes me suspicious. He works alot and alot of the time is a t night everytime I call the cell phone he answers. I know he loves me and wants to be with me. And I dont think he would ever cheat on me. How do I get past the mistrust of what previous men have put me through. Iam a single mother of a 15 month old and am also trying to keep him from getting hurt by my relationship am I just being to jealous?
Every relationship is based on trust and faith. You have to trust your boyfriend to follow through on what he says, and you have to have faith that what he says is true. So believe him. Let go of the suspicion. Let go of the worry and niggling fears that he's being untrue. Trust that he is a good guy. It's scary, I know, particularly when you've been burned before. But if he is as good as you say he is, then he's worth investing the time and effort into.
-- from Jenn
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