My problem is that I'm not sure if he likes me as a girlfriend or a girl friend
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I'm 17 from Georgia. I've had a really good guy friend for about a year now. At first we just were talking at school, but then he started coming by my locker and walking me to class and stuff. We exchanged screen names and everything so we started talking through that too. Then, at the end of this school year, we got each others' phone numbers. He called me a couple of time, then told me to call him, so i did. I asked him if he wanted to go hang out somewhere and he agreed. We had the best time, laughed the WHOLE time. A little flirting was also going on. We just sat in the car for 20 minutes, just talking. It was wonderful. AT the end of the night he asked me if i wanted to go to the movies with him and his friend the next day (he wanted to set his friend up with mine.) I agreed, so he called me the next day and we went to the movie. We had a good time there too. My problem is that I'm not sure if he likes me as a girlfriend or a girl friend. He is naturally a bit flirtatious with everyone, so i am definitely confused. I really, really like this guy. I think he likes me, I have a feeling, but I'm not sure. Any ideas?
You've just started dating, don't go wacky on it this quickly. If you like him, get to be friends with him. Liking someone is about enjoying talking to them and spending time with them - it is NOT about just looking at someone from afar and thinking about them! So spend time with him, talk with him, get to know him and be with him. If he likes you, he'll talk to you! If he likes you, he'll spend time with you. And that way you will KNOW he likes you without ever having to actually ask him to his face and risk hearing something that is untrue. Words can be lies. Actions are usually what really count in life.
-- from Jenn
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