How do I trust my boyfriend again
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
How do I trust my boyfriend again? He has lied to me in the past and I think he continues to do it. I don't know for sure that he is but I don't trust him enough to believe him. How do I begin to rebuild trust with him?
If you want to trust him again, then HE is the one who has to do the work on this. He has to show himself to be trustworthy. That what he says and what he does are always true. That he is committed to the relationship and that he's willing to work overtime to give you the comfort level you need in order to believe him again.
If he's not willing to go the extra mile to become trustworthy, then I would recommend that you find someone new, someone who will be willing to be a full partner to you.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com