Is this the end of our relationship?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hello Romance Class,
PLEASE HELP ME!
I'm 18 and boyfriend is 20. We have been together for 2 years and have been fairly well maintaining a long relationship. We are usually happy and he was always there for me when I needed it.However, I sometimes feel like we are drifting apart because we are both musicians and have our own bands and so forth, but recently I think it has been official. Is this the end of our relationship?
Ok and I have another problem. I feel soooooooooo jealous about his past girlfriends. I'm espaicially jealous of the sexual experiences he's done since I've had issues with my father. I can't stand the fact my boyfriend has had wild "nights" and tried all these risky things, it makes me feel like crap. I lost my virginity with him, but he had done "it" before that with many many other partners.
We have lots of tips on long-distance relationships:
It sounds to me like you two have a basic conflict here but perhaps you can still work through it. You might seek counselling to get past the bumps in the road. But it is possible if you are both committed to creating a lasting relationship.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com