Ive never felt this way about anyone before,Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Theres this girl that ive only known for about a month, but i really like her alot. Weve kissed once or twice. We even french kissed once. She made the first move on me! Ive never felt this way about anyone before, i find myself always thinking about her. And whenever shes sad, it makes me sad, and so on and so forth. Sometimes it seems like she really feels the same way i do about her, but others it seems like she doesnt have any interest in me at all, and she talks about some other dude she wants to be her boyfriend. What is she doing to me? Am I crazy, or is she just testing me, or is she just kissing me to get what she wants out of me, for me to do stuff for her? I really need some help here!
It sounds to me like this girl doesn't know what she wants. She's playing so hot and cold with you, there's no wonder you're confused. So it'll take a lot for you to figure her out since she is playing you so much. You need to decide if she's worth waiting for her to settle down or if it's more heartache than pleasure. If you want to continue with her, then build a great foundation as a friendship so that the romance can sit on top of it. If you don't have her as a friend then there's no way that the relationship will succeed. Go do things with her like going to the mall or to a movie or just hanging out together. Find fun things to do with her and then she'll think of you as a friend plus more, instead of just a meat puppet for her to make out with.
-- from Marc
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