What do i need to do to get her back? i miss her so muchVisitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
this could b long so just bare with me because this has been going on for a while.
me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago, she broke up with me for a number of reasons.
1- because i was goin through a phase where everything was depressing me an without knowing it i would take things out on her, not pysically, but just argueing.
2- because she wanted more time with her mates.
3- because she does performing arts and she didnt want anymore distractions (argueing, worryin about me and why i was like i was)
It turned out that i was going through depression and i didnt tell her because i didn't want her to come back to me by feeling sorry for me. Anyway during a party 2 weeks after we split up she sat by me and gradually we started getting closer and closer, till we were kissing and dancing together. the day after, i rang her and she said that she still wanted to be alone for a bit an that she felt vunrable at the time. i left it there.
A few weeks after we saw eachother in college and we went for a cigarette together, we ended up kissing again an decided to have a go at a more quiet relationship because some of her friends were giving her grief about how wrong she's been treating me. a week after she stopped suddenly and i found out that it caused her arguements at home, because her mother and father didnt want me or her to get hurt.
I asked her to a prom night, which is swn, at the college. she said no, and that she didnt want me or anyone to get the wrong idea. so then a rumour went around that i was taking my ex before her to the prom, she didnt like it and aint spoken to me since. i txt her a month 1/2 after to ask her if she'd like to go out somewhere to meet, she replied and said just leave me alone.
now which is a month after the txt i recently got beaten up by a couple of random boys in town, in college she started making a lot of eye contact and looked concerned because i had a big briuse on my face. since then a lot of eye contact has been made and she has recently started talking to me again, after she talked to me she seemed more happier than usual. What does that mean?
What do i need to do to get her back? i miss her so much
It sounds to me like this relationship does have a chance. Her feelings for you have not faded away and she still cares about you and what you're goign through. So there is hope.
Just take it slowly. There's no magical cure to heal this relationship, it'll just have to take time to build up to something big again. Go out on dates with her, take her to the movies or out to dinner or something as small as study dates or hanging out on the college lawn. Anything to be with her, and it will flow from there.
-- from Marc
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