i have the biggest crush on the boy next door
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Ok. I'm 13 and i have the biggest crush on the boy next door. he smokes has a girlfriend and sleeps with her.[she is pregnant] but i cant get over him. i have this wierd feeling when i think about him its like i want to have sex with him really bad and ive never even had sex before his girlfriend and him were in a fight the other night and i know it was about me. i really need some help and advice. hes trying to stop smoking and he knows i like him and stuff but he doesnt talk to me when his girlfriend is around. i really want to be his friend but his girlfriend probably wont approve. please help me i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This guy has a number of strikes against him, and you still like him. Boy do I know that feeling! BUT He's wrong for you in so many ways, you need to move on and find someone else to like. If he got his girlfriend pregnant, then that means he's not responsible about using condoms, and do YOU want to get pregnant at 13?? I didn't think so. So he's not a good guy for you to be dating, even if you were to get his girlfriend to break up with him. That would leave her as a single mother of their child, do you want to do that to the kid? I didn't think so.
It's fun to have a crush. Slightly deranging but still fun. So enjoy liking him, but find someone else to like too... someone who can give you the care and love and fun and excitement that this guy can't do for you.
Good luck, let us know how it turns out!
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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