I really like this boy and I only see him at the skating rink
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I really like this boy and I only see him at the skating rink on Fridays and saturdays. But Sometimes I think he likes me but then there are times when I think he does not like me. He has a girlfriend and me and her get along. But that doesnt make me feel better. All I do is think about him and I'm so confused. I have liked him for about 2 years. There are times when he flirts with me and when he does I think he likes me but after he flirts with me he will go to someone else and flirt with other girls. He flirts with 2 of my friends also. So I'm scared to ask him. I need another way to find out. I can never tell him how I feel because like I said I only see him at the skating rink on Fridays and saturdays. I really need advice. Please help. What do I do?
You don't have to ask him outright whether he likes you or not. You can get to know him better by asking him more questions about himself like what does he think of school, what does he like to eat, etc. By getting to be a closer friend, you'll be able to come closer to a relationship. See if he'll see you outside the rink, maybe a movie or out to dinner somewhere. Take it in small steps and see how he responds.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com