I Like my Best Friend
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I've discovered I like my best friend. I don't want to because I'm afraid that if i start acting unusaul whenever we hang out, that she'll notice and then find out i like her. It's not that i'm embarrassed about it, it's just that i enjoy being her friend so much and i'd hate it if anything changed between us, and destroyed our friendship. How can i stay friends with her without changing how we are already?
I've also got another thing on my mind about this girl. What if by some crazy marvel, i decided i liked her enough to ask her out? I just recently found out that my best guy friend likes her too. I don't want to get hurt asking her out and i don't want to hurt my friend if she says yes. What should i do?
If you could answer both of my preidcaments that would be great but if u can only answer one, that's great too so either way, please answer as soon as possible. Thanx.
Prety much EVERY great relationship starts with two friends who become closer and closer. I have a ton of tips on the site about how to get closer together without risking the friendship - be sure to read all the information, and then take those steps!
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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Ask her out