A frustrating new relationship - what's happening??
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i met a girl over the internet about 1 week ago since then we have chatted 3 times over the internet and on the third time we seems to get on really well as we were chatting the convosation was going towards meeting each other as we live in the same city less than 1/2 mile from each other and when i asked when she would like to meet she said in 2 weeks as im going on holiday tomorrow i asked her for the return date she would be back on and she said that she dont know as she might be staying longer she gave me her friends msn address to talk to about her while she was away well her friend hasnt been on msn at all and 3 days after she told me she was going on holiday i came back from watching a film and noticed she was on msn set as away so i sent a message for when she was back then her display picture changed and about 5 mins later she went offline im just wondering if she really went on holiday or if she just doesnt want to speak to me anymore as i cant see anything thats gone wrong and im getting frustrated over it
When on vacation, I'll always take an opportunity to jump online and check my mail, chat with people, etc. So don't take her online presence to mean anything at all. The relationship is still really really young and so don't take this stuff so much to heart. You'll only wind yourself up into knots for no reason.
Go back to chatting with her and leave the IRL meeting for later. Get to be her friend and then let it lead from there, but don't push too hard or she'll run away.
-- from Marc
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