But the problem for me is to go up to a girl and speaking to her.

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male

I have had a lot of trouble since i was a kid. I dont know why, i havent done much wrong, i am a okish person,lol. Ive been bullyed, and people have said a lot of cruel things to me. Ive kinda become low in confedance about my self and how i act, A lot of people have said to me dont worrie about what others think.

I know i can act a bit silly, i am very shy in front of people, but i think the most nasthyest thing i have been called is UGLY, i have to live with this. I mean i like a lot of girls, is that good or bad? i dont know at all,lol, because they look pretty, i dont even know them.

But the problem for me is to go up to a girl and speaking to her. I find it really hard, i am 17 and i havent had a girlfriend yet. The girls i like are from a different race and religon from me ive had racist comments said to me from a girl i liked.

i feel really scard in what girls might think of my face, i dont seem to meet anyone by fluke.

anyway sorry to disturb you

take care

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I think that you've grown up with a hard childhood and it's still affecting you now. You might want to talk with a school counsellor about getting over these painful memories. That's what they're there for.

On the other items, everyone is afraid of going up to a stranger and asking them out. You're not alone here. So what you need to do is be less of a stranger. Get to know them as a friend first and then work up from there. It's a lot easier to make the step from friend to girlfriend than it is to go from stranger to hot date.

Good luck!


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