My Friend Messed Up my Chances
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i'm 13 going on 14 and i have this crush and my friend lied to me. I"M CHIckan i can't say any thing to him because i'm a stupid bird i know that i should have whent up and say it but she got to me and said "hay let me he ignores yah so let me" yah and then lie, well he look's kind'y of a like harry potter but a bad singging voice bushy eye brows and is harry all over and likes band to much.
You don't want to go up to him and say "I like you!" in any case! The best relationships begin with friendships. Just be friends with him, talk to him, hang out with him. Then let things develop from there. You don't want your friends doing relationship stuff for you - they will notoriously screw things up. You want to build your own relationship, slowly and steadily. That is what works best. There are tons of tips how on the site!
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com