What do we Talk About?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
there's this guy that rides my bus. he also just lives right down the road from me. he is 2 years older than me and hes really cute. i guess you could say he flirts with me a little bit. he is my best friends brothers friend. i like him a lot. my best friend knows him a lot more than i do. i have talked to him a little and he has talked to me a little, but its not that easy for me to talk to him. we are both shy. how do i get to know him and what do i say to him?
Most of us are shy, but we find a way to get past that and take the risk of talking. You guys already talk a little, so you know a little about each other. Keep track of anything that he says that he enjoys - hockey, classic rock, cats, horses, anything. Then talk to him about those things. People get more relaxed when they talk about things they enjoy :)
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com