Age Difference Problems
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I met this guy, who is the most hot/beautiful guy I have ever met. Theres a bit of an age difference, but it works. Im afraid that hes going to try and play me though. He still hasnt kissed me, yet he wants to do other things. I dont know what to do. Im not that type of girl. I like long lasting relationships based on Christian morals. I def. think we should kiss before anything else (if anything else were to happend). Should I confront him??? Help!
This is exactly why there are often issues with age difference relationships. If he pressures you, he does not respect you. One of THE most important things you can learn in life is that it is really important to have the respect of the people you love. If he tries to pressure you or get you to change your mind, then keep your distance. A user is rarely someone who sticks around. Someone who can use you is someone who will take off once they get what they want.
-- from Lisa
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