I Broke Up - He is Still Around
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
first the story i went out with this boy for 7 months and i broke up with him because i heard that he was messing with other girls when i wasn't around. Now its 8 months after our relationship and even though he said he was going to leave me alone he stills tries to have converstions with me. Does he still like me and do you think he might go back with me?
Well obviously he doesn't hate you, if he is actively seeking you out and trying to talk to you! That is pretty clear that he likes you. People do not actively talk to people they hate, or that they feel neutrally about.
So your question for yourself is - do you believe those stories? If so then you really need to have a serious talk about it with him. You can NEVER have a relationship unless there is trust. That is what the relationship is founded on. Either he rebuilds that trust - and you fully trust in him going forward - or this is not going to work.
-- from Lisa
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