best friend's brother
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Ok! I'm seeing this guy who's my best friends brother I like him alot and want to go fearther with him cause all we have don is kiss but i'm ready to go further and I know he is to but we have to respect my best friend who doesnt even like us to kiss in front of her so what should I do? Should i keep things the way it is, talk to him or what?
To begin with, going further with this person or anyone is a big step and should be taken with great care and consideration.
That being said, how does your friend feel about the relationship? Maybe she doesn't mind it, but doesn't want to see you smooching in front of her face.
If she is opposed, you risk losing her friendship and if things do not work out with her brother, you end up losing both.
So, you need to ask yourself how important your friendship is and is it worth losing over a tentative relationship.
Why not keep your relationship with your friend's brother where it is until your friend becomes more confident in its strength and then go from there?
Oh, and no smooching in front of her face. ;-)
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com