I Go with Him - He Won't Go with Me
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Well when I ask my boyfrined if he will like to go somewhere with me he will say no. But when he ask me to go somewhere with him I say yes. What can i do about that?
Well, do you keep asking him to go watch rocks and he keeps asking you to go to the movies? It could simply be that you are suggesting things he's not interested in at all. Yes, to be fair, he should do some things that you like in return for you doing things he likes. There needs to be give and take.
If it's the case that you support his interests and he supports yours, then phrase your next request differently. Say "Look, cutie-pie. Last weekend we went to see your airplane show and had fun. This weekend it's my turn, come with me to see this flower show." If he refuses, then say gently that it would be important to you, to have him support your interests.
-- from Lisa
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