My boyfriend is living with another woman

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
my boyfriend was living with another girl, he told me they could see other people. well i called her up to find out where there relationship was she told me that they never agred on seeing other people. my boyfriend has not broke-up with me face to face yet he told me to stop calling so he could try to fix things with the other women. how should i deal with this so i can get on with my life. Advice
It sounds like he has been lying to you and to her, and that his main aim is to be happy with her and to try to convince her to keep him even though he lied to her and cheated on her.

He definitely took huge advantage of you, using you and lying to you at the same time. I would count yourself lucky that you took the step to find out the truth before you got even more deeply involved with him. Yes, breaking up is always hard, no matter what the circumstances. I have lots of tips on how to go through a breakup -

Read through them, and give yourself time to heal. I think that you'll be stronger for the experience and next time will find someone far more worthy of your love and affection. Good luck!

-- from Jenn
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