Trying to Get My Ex Back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i broke up with my boyfiend that i had for 4 years also my highschool sweetheart about a year ago and now we hav estarted back talking on the phone and hanging out when hes in town. and now i eralize that i still love him and i want him back but he has a girlfirend now and he told me that he dont think he will ever have any feelings for me again and i already told him how i feel. i just dont know what to do i love him so much and want him back how do i do that, and do you think its possible.
If he is dating someone else, and if you caused them to break up, then he would always think of you as the Destructive Force that harmed a relationship. It would permanently taint how he thought of you. If you really and truly want to keep him as an option, stay good friends with him but don't pressure him. Show him you are there for him without any pressure. That way if HE chooses to break up with her he will trust you enough to keep talking with you. But in the meantime I would date other guys too, because you never know what life has in store for you. After all, your ex chose to leave because he wanted to date other people. That doesn't sound like a guy who was really meant for you. Somewhere out there is a guy who IS meant for you.
-- from Lisa
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