I'm Dating Her and Chasing Her Best Friend

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
there is this girl that i like named D and her friend J likes me now im goin out wit J and i was trying to go wit D but she neva would tell me if she liked me or not and J has a reputation so wat should i do stay wit J or kepp tryin to get D?

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Wow, that is called being an absolute slimeball!! :) If you are dating someone, you should NEVER be actively trying to go after her friend!! Sheesh. Either love the girl you're with, or break up so she can find someone who will. To "use her" as a crutch while you chase her best friend is just wrong wrong wrong.

-- from Lisa
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