Getting Closer to my Crush
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
ok, well there is this really cute girl that i want to be friends with. my problem is keeping myself from having a crush on her and the reason why i know i have a crush on her is because when she hangs with this guy i feel really bad.
what should i do, and how can i become friends with her. another problem is that i never get a chance to talk to her because we have different schedules and the only time she is off, she hangs with the other guy.
There are all sorts of ways to get closer to someone. I have a ton of tips on the site about 'breaking the ice' - about getting to be more and more comfortable with her. Make it a project, just like any other project you might work on. If you take a small step every few days, soon enough you two will be friends! And from there, who knows ...
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com