she cheated on me and went with another guy.

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MY ex-girlfriend and I broke up almost a year ago because she cheated on me and went with another guy. However, we run into each other frequently and she has a sesaw way with her boyfriend because she likes me. I know this because she's told me a few months ago. Sometimes she acts rather rude with me other days she acts like the most loving ang understanding woman in the world. I have to admit that her cheating on me did a great phsychological number on me, but i'm over that stage and I truly LOVE her with all my heart and think about her all the time. I would really like to know what is it that I can do to win back that woman I love and some advice on how to speak with her having all this behind us. Advice
Well, first question, why would you want someone back who cheats on you? If she asked to come back to you that would be different, but chasing her, no way. Sure she goes hot and cold because she has conflicting feelings, but until she resolves them she's going to keep acting this way. Why put yourself through all this? Forget her and find someone else who won't be a jerk... yup, women can be jerks too.

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