Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female

Ok i am 14 he is 16 we are madly in love and care soo much about each other i love him soo much and i want to spend the rest of my life with him he asked me to marry him i said yes but lately he has been asking and talking to me about why cant he look at porn well i told him because he has me were intimate and i just dont feel like he should look at it or want to what do i do??? Please answer me ASAP!!!

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He's going to look at porn whether you like it or not and whether you know it or not. Just tell him that even though it bothers you that you understand that you can't stop him and just ask him not to tell you about it and not to bring it up.

It's normal for a boy/man of his age to be curious about other women and stuff like that. If you try to tell him what he can do, he'll end up resenting you.

I know this is not the answer you want to hear and it does suck, but guys' minds work differently than girls'. I guess you could look at it this way, better that he is looking at porn than cheating on you.

Best wishes,

-- from Marc
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