eventually one night we had our first kiss...it was AMAZING
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
my question is this: i became really good friends in highschool with a girl. the friendship slowly progressed and eventually one night we had our first kiss...it was AMAZING....the suspense and anticipation of that kiss had built up so much for so long (months)and she ended up being the one to kiss ME! anyway..........we were together for a couple months and i think it was a decision we both made that maybe we would be better off as friends. well, she went on and has been with her current boyfriend for about a year and lately she has been on my mind 24/7. everywhere i go i hear a song that reminds me of her or a girl that looks like her. i have dreams about her (not nasty ones). i have come to the conclusion that i really love this girl and dont know what to do about it. i havent talked to her in about 8 months and dont know what to do. im going to go crazy! i would do anything to just be her friend again. the problem is, i am in college about 3 hours away from my hometown (where she lives). what can i do to get her back in my life? or at least let her know about how im feeling.
Well, she has a boyfriend and breaking them up isn't cool. That doesn't mean, however, that being friends isn't out of the question. Email her.
In the meantime, make some new friends at school.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com